You Can Be Free



You can be free if you want to. If you want any kind of a life at all you have to stop thinking that others will save you and you have to stop waiting for others. You have to think about your life and what you can do.


Other people do not really care about you that much. Maybe I do. That is why I write this. I care. But other than the writing there is not much I can do to help you.

You can leave your bad wife behind and start a better life being single just as I have done.

You can become a better father to your children.

You can work your way out of debt, pay your bills ahead of time, avoid buying a house, find less expensive ways to live and start a part time internet business to increase your income.

I have done all these things. I changed my mind about marriage, fatherhood, bills and my life. My life is vastly different than 5 years ago when I had to run from my wife and I feared her every move.

But no one did for me. I had to do the leaving on my own.

You have to think what I can do to make your life what you want. No one is going to give you the life you want. No one.

Thinking that someone else will is Santa Claus thinking. The government is not going to save you. They are only going to save themselves, not you. In order to save themselves they are going to try to hurt you in the process. They are going to tax you more. They are going to regulate you more. They are going to make your life more difficult. They may try to jail you or even kill you.

Do you think I am overly pessimistic? Just look at what is happening every day. Just because it has not happened to you so far, does not mean it will not happen.

That is why it is critical to your life to think about what you can do to make your own life better. You can be free if you make the effort to do so.

If you are in a bad marriage, end it. Leave your wife. It does not get better the longer you wait. It only gets worse.

If your job is not that great in some way, start looking for another one. It is not easy to leave a job you have held for many years, but you can start the process.

I am looking for a new job. I bought a new suit, new shirts and new ties. This is expensive but it is my life I am working on.

In addition to having a job you can start an internet business of some kind. I created this website by using Site Build It. I am not a computer technical guy at all. But with Site Build It you do not have to be. There is nothing quite as satisfying as having money flow to you as from your own business.

Your life and your freedom is created by you. You cannot wait for others to do something. You do something. You need to think about your life. You need to start to act on what you want.

I wanted to be free of the verbal abuse from my wife. I acted and left her.

I wanted to have my own business. I acted and started my websites with Site Build It.

I want a lot of things, so I write these things down on my lists and steadily work toward them. Freedom is not what someone gives you. It is something that you have from the way you live your life. No one is going to give you freedom. It is more likely that they will look for ways to restrict your freedom, both with force and with cunning.

Just knowing that this is so gives you an advantage. You no longer have to waste time waiting for others to give you anything. You just go about your life as you see fit. You can be free if you do this and think this way.

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