Attract Women Easier by
Getting the Alpha Male Look

The more you develop the alpha male look the better your life will be. You will attract women easier. You will do better in business and your career. You will have more fun and a better life.

The easiest way to do better with women is to have them come up to you. This happens more and more the more you look like an alpha male . Now most women do not just come up to men and start the interaction. They are more coy. They come up to you in a way, that if you are unaware, you do not think they are doing anything.

This recognition problem is a huge problem for most men. Most men are clueless. You do not even realize when a woman is interested in you. I am just starting to realize how often women came on to me, or came up to me, that I did not even realize.

I have a couple of friends who are 6'-5" tall and women were always coming up to them and saying, you're so tall. Those guys did not know what to say back. They had the alpha male look of height and they did not even realize it. Looking back now, the girls were throwing themselves at them. If you are tall, understand that all you need is a simple comeback to this comment and then a transition to asking her name and getting her phone number right away. I cannot stress this enough, if you are tall, that is sometimes all the alpha male look you need.

To repeat, if you are tall, that may be all the alpha male quality you need.

Let's look at another small example. Say it is late in the evening at a club or bar with a band or DJ. The music is blaring great songs or at least songs that are good enough for dancing. You are standing there with a drink in your hand looking at the girls. You are with a friend, but you are talked out because you have been with him all night, besides the music is too loud to hear each other anyway.

Then you notice a girl who just showed up near you. But she has her back to you. Is this girl just lost and looking for her friends? Is she standing by you by mistake? No, she is trying to get your attention. She is coming up to you to try to get you to say something to her. She wants some male attention from you. You have the alpha male look that she wants. She wants you to do something. She is not going to just grab you and grind on you, unless she is very bold or quite drunk.

But this is what most men wait for. The extreme bold or extreme drunk behavior from women. Most girls just do not come on to guys that way.

You are wimping out if you do nothing. Of course, if you do not like the look of her, you can ignore this. But a better way to train yourself to be better with women is to say something to her. Instead of you not ever doing anything, you become the alpha male who is always talking to the girls. You can always bail if you do not find her attractive in either her looks or her personality. But you cannot really know until you talk to her a little.

Waiting for women to make the first big move is no way for you as a man to be. When you notice a girl in your space, you have to act. You have to say something. You have to do something. She is in your space because you have the alpha male look.

One way to make the girls come up to you more and to talk to you more is to look more interesting or be more interesting in some way. You physically have something to improve your alpha male look.

This is why you wear big, good looking expensive watches. This is why you wear some type of ring. This is why you wear expensive shoes. This is why you put on good smelling cologne. This is why you dress up. This is why you get a good haircut. This is why you want big muscles. This is why you craft manly facial hair. This is why you laugh and joke around with your friends or the people around you.

You do not mind standing out. You welcome it. You enjoy looking big, or tough, or well-dressed or something. You enjoy laughing, joking around and having some fun.

These are things that women can get into. These are all things they are interested in. They consider these things to be an alpha male look. They want to comment on your beard. They want to feel your big arms. They want to smell your cologne. They want to know why you wear a ring. They want to see you closer. They want to be in on your fun.

Can you get it into your head that as a man, women want you? Women desire you. Women will kiss you within minutes of meeting you. Women will have sex with you without knowing anything at all about you.

This has happened to me. It happens still. At the times where I had the most alpha male look, incredible things happened.

Sometimes I think back to the women I met and have been with and have been amazed at how fast it happened. I wonder if this was even me.

Women have come on to me and I do not even realize it. It is hard to comprehend. I have been actively working on myself to make myself be manlier and more of an alpha male and to develop the alpha male look I am talking about but I still have the beta thinking that says all this is impossible.

I think that all those things happened to me 20 years ago. It is impossible for them to be happening now. I am so old.

But that is not true.

20 years ago I had a lot more hair. 20 years ago I was leaner. 20 years ago I went out a lot more and drank more and had a lot more fun times with my friends. We were always laughing and joking and having the times of our lives. We had so much fun that it did not matter if there were women around or not. If there weren't we had fun. If there were women around we had fun and the women were just drawn to us and wanted to be in on our fun.

But now things are different. In some ways things for me are worse but in some ways things are much better.

I am balding. I am overweight. I don't go out that much. I only get together with my good friends a few times a year.

But I choose to look at how much better my life is.

I do not go out that much because I am spending time on things that mean a lot to me. I care for my children. I work on my health. I especially work on my internet businesses.

I am balding but I now have great looking facial hair that I never had as a younger man. I look like a man.

I need to lose weight but my muscles are huge. I have much more muscles than I did years ago. Plus, I have huge muscles relative to my age group. I do not look like the typical fat, pale middle aged man in his forties.

I look like I can beat people up, because I can. I look like I can lift huge weights because I can. I look tan and outdoorsy because I am.

I have chosen to be this way. I have chosen to continue to lift huge, heavy weights with a weight training program that is ideal for most men.

I have chosen to be tan by consciously spending more time in the sun. I have chosen to ignore the mainstream advice that says the sun is harmful. I feel better and more healthy by getting more sun.

I am more outdoorsy because I have spent many days outdoors doing hard physical work that is impossible for most other men of my age.

When I do go out I have fun. I talk to people, I joke around with whoever. I make it a point to be having fun and feeling good in the moment.

When there are women around I do fine.

You can create in yourself the alpha male look that women love by choosing to do this. The information is available. Spending some money on making yourself look better is what alpha males do. They do not give all their money to others. They spend a big portion of it on themselves. This spending money on things for me is a huge change for me. I feel the guilt for actually buying things I want but I am working through it. You are just as important as anyone else. If that is true, then you deserve to have the things you want to have and do the things you want to do.

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