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Personal Development for Men, Issue #033 -How to Afford Divorce
September 16, 2012
Hello Men,

Welcome to Personal Development for Men Issue #33

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How to Afford Divorce

Methods to Think About

Divorce and living after you have left your wife is going to be expensive. You will be stuck with huge payments to your wife. Maybe for years or even a decade or more. If you have lots of kids your payments will he huge. If you have a house, you will probably have to keep paying her enough to make that payment.

This money problem is why you have been staying in too long of a bad marriage. You fear how you will live. You fear how much you will have to pay.

I went through all this. I talk about the fear in my book - "How to Leave Your Wife" - and how I decided to do it in spite of the fear. I just decided to let the chips fall where they may. I just could not go on the way things were.

At first I lived very inexpensively with friends and family. Then later I continued to live as cheaply as I could with a combination of what income I had left over from child support/maintenance and money from my parents.

But what about if you have no parents or family to help you? What if you feel like you are alone?

I have just bought two inexpensive books that show an extremely inexpensive way to live in your vehicle. The first book is titled Vanabode written by Jason Odom. The second book is titled How to Live Cheaply in a Car, Van or RV written by Robert Wells. You can learn more about these books on this page - Afford Divorce. I bought these books because I am interested in cheap travel. But cheap travel also means cheap living. Both books describe how you can have a fantastic lifestyle living out of a vehicle. You live well without a huge mortgage or rent payment. You have to have a vehicle anyway. Why not have a vehicle you can live in as well as drive around in. Why let a lack of money stop you from having a good life?

Whatever you do, do not let a lack of money stop you from leaving your wife. This is your life. You deserve a good life. You are not here to live out your life in a loveless. abusive marriage where you are just waiting to die.

You need to leave your wife and let the chips fall where they may.

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How to Leave Your Wife To all the frustrated married men out there my eBook "How to Leave Your Wife" describes my story of the verbal abuse I went through and the steps I went through in order to leave my wife.

The Secret of Deliberate Creation is an excellent audio program by Dr. Robert Anthony. I have been listening to it over and over again and my life is getting better in the process. I am starting to manifest good things into my life as a result of using this program.

The Handsome Factor - This is a great resource for men, and especially young men to learn how to maximize your appearance.

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